Happy New Year!



Here’s hoping that 2016 will be the year when…

Kim Davies shuts her mouth and goes away

Australia FINALLY gets to start celebrating same-sex marriages.

Northern Ireland FINALLY gets to start celebrating same-sex marriages.

Equal marriage is passed in more countries

Homosexuality is decriminalised in more countries.

The Westboro Baptists are recalled to their whack-a-doo mothership.

We trust individuals to recognise and realise their own gender at whatever stage of their life they’re at.

Gladiators comes back to Saturday night television

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